I've
been shoe shopping online all week since I cannot find shoes that fit
where I am and walking barefoot is not an option.
Shoe
shopping is one of the most frustrating things I have to do from time
to time but exciting too when I manage to find a decent shoe in my
size. Size 12.5. Yes, you read right 12.5 for women.
I
have always been among the tallest girls through out my school days.
It never really occurred to me that I had long feet then till much
later in my teens. My relatives teased me a lot about my feet and
called them all sorts of names. It was actually funny. A local tabloid
once called them duck feet, pictures included. Haha.
We
have all heard the myth about large hands and feet being a
good fore teller of larger other things for men. My son is
in luck if those myths are true as he took from me the long feet.
Hihi. Now, you won't believe someone dared to ask if the same applies
for women with big feet, seriously???
There
are few myths about women with long feet but non make sense to me so
I won't even go there. We are simply tall women with feet relative to
our bodies.
I
get that traditionally, women are expected to have tiny, cute,
delicate feet but let us leave that to men who have a fetish for
feet. Even if I do know a size 13 can be equally as attractive.
Anyway, I don't know much about foot fetishes.
Living
in Europe, Italy in particular, has rubbed it in that my feet are
abnormally long. I step into a store and have jaws dropping at the
mention of my shoe size. Some will think I am kidding and peep to
confirm.
When
I am out shoe shopping, many will ask me about my athletic abilities,
swimming, running, etc. Unfortunately, I am not good at any. I did
not put these feet to good use, damn it! I am usually advised to try
sneakers in the guys section. I also get directions to the
specialized stores for people with big feet. The shoes at these
stores are plain, most of the times not pretty and don't forget at an
extra cost.
What
I don't get is why would you expect a thick, 5'11 woman to wear a
size 6? I think i would even topple over with such a tiny foot. These feet give us balance, believe me.
I
find it sad to read that some women with big feet are actually
embarrassed to admit their shoes sizes and will even buy smaller
shoes that don’t fit. It's not that serious, it's just a foot, it
does not define you.
I'm
happy about the web sites and stores around the world trying to cater
to us though. Thanx to them, I have had quite a fulfilling week.
Here is a peep at some of my new babies.
So don’t be afraid or shy my big feet women. Nicely pedicure those giant feet, paint your nails, feel good in those flip flops. Anyone makes a comment you don’t like about your awesomely longer than usual feet, make use of them. Kick their ass so hard, they will never forget your shoe size.
If
Lisa Leslie (size 13), Tyra Bank (size 12), Kate Winslet(size 11.5 ),
Michelle Obama (size 11.5), Macy Grey (size 12) among others are
rocking their big feet, so can we. Oh, by the way, wearing smaller
shoes does not make your feet smaller. It will simply give you
PAIN.
LT
Awesome! And honestly I think we should stop paying too much attention on our shoe, bra (or anything else's) size! It doesn't make us more or less of a woman! It only sets us apart... I will say though that it always feels good finding a store that caters for your uniqueness! I have tge same challenge when it comes to the upper under garments department!!!
ReplyDeleteWell said Connie. We need to step out of these cultural expectations and embrace what we have even if it may not be the usual.
DeleteAm so honored to say i also put on size 11 and not only am i proud with my feet but i like the fact that you will never find long feet in short women, am so proud to have longer feet and over look all those who laugh at my feet and say they are too long and i think to my self, these guys don't know what they are missing...cheers to ''duck feet''
ReplyDeleteCheers Anna.
DeleteRock your feet girl. I enjoyed reading this, u got a sense of humor; I believe that is how life should be, we should be able to make light of our imperfections. Funny enough am 5'11 too but have a shy size 6 (39 european size), havent toppled over yet....hihihihi
ReplyDeletelol, You're sure you're not staggering at least. haha
DeleteThis was so fun to read and i laughed through it, which is what i enjoyed most:)
ReplyDeleteBut back to feet, i wear size 10 US which is 8 UK and that for a woman is also rather big...to some people...so i get how it can be even tougher at size 12 or 13.
I would say one joy of living in America is that everything is bigger here...so the same goes for shoes hahahahahaha so no problem finding bigger sizes for us girls with longer/bigger feet. Enjoy your new babies...pretty choices:)
Xx
Oh you know the struggles now that you visited where I live.
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